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What makes others fall in love with you? Now you do not need to leave this process to chance. Learn about different types of men and how love dynamics work for each of them.

Love Dynamics

Not many people feel whole in this world. At all times you probably sensed that something was missing in your life. It may be some deep-rooted need or desire, some experiences that you longed for.

Think of the last time you felt in love. Chances are that it was with someone who at least seemed to have the necessary qualities to deliver you want you wanted. Maybe it was all in your mind. Maybe it was all in your imagination. Maybe it was you who wrongly attributed him with these qualities, but the point is here: you were searching for someone to fulfil your needs and you fell in love with him because he SEEMED to have what you were looking for. He seemed to fill that gap in your character, that empty piece in your psyche. Likewise, if you manage to figure out the needs of other person in AND present yourself as someone who can fulfil these needs, he will fall in love with you.

How to Observe People

When trying to figure out the needs of other people, listening to what they say about themselves is usually not a very good idea. This is because most of us developed a social mask, which was specifically designed to cover the vulnerable pieces of our psyche. If you want to connect with people you need to understand their real personalities. You need to look behind the mask to see the person. Be aware that people often display signals that are actually contradicting to what they really feel inside.

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What to Look For

When trying to read people don't pay attention to something that is under their conscious control. Instead you will be observing them in unguarded moments, when their defences are down. You will be looking at their spontaneous reactions. You will be paying attention to their clothes and gestures. You will be asking them about their past experiences. Little by little the picture will become clear. Someone may be longing for fame. Someone is wishing for adventure. And someone else may be simply bored and will fall in love with anyone who seems to be capable to cure him from this nagging feeling.

Never assume that other people want the same things as you do. And if they really want the same things as you do, then you probably should not be together anyway, because none of you can offer the relief to the other. You will be miserable together.

Next few pages will discuss different types of men, each will be classified according to his psychological makeup and needs that he seeks to fulfil. If you don't find the type you are dealing with, it will still stimulate your thinking and, eventually, you will be able to crack the code of that particular person. Here we go:





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