Relationship light-bulb moments with Bob Grant's e-book »
Ever wondered what is really meant by insecure people? Well, most of us have some insecurities that poison our lives and are the main reason of our failures, but that is no big problem for your relationships if you properly deal with it by acknowledging you have an issue and working on improving yourself. However, there are still plenty of people who are insecure to the point of being repellent, they are miserable and they make others miserable too. Here are some of the most common types:
Complainers and Faultfinders
They are extremely passive, they don't see themselves responsible for anything in their lives. Everything is done to them and not by them. Trying to satisfy or reassure them feels like filling a bottomless pit, so don't even try. They are extremely self-conscious, the slightest ambiguity on your part will be taken as a personal insult, they will complain bitterly about your inattention and disrespect. Moreover, they will never forget it. Marry them and you will be miserable for the rest of your life.
Blabbers
People who talk a lot usually talk about themselves. This is due to deep-rooted selfishness and lack of social sensitivity. However the core problem is that they are not comfortable with silence, so they feel they have to fill it with something, just anything. Most of them do not understand they are boring you, they think of themselves as very interesting people, rare to find. The funny thing is that sometimes the blabbers sense they are doing a wrong thing, but they just can't bring themselves to stop!!! Avoid them like fire, they will just waste your time (you will leave them anyhow).
Posers
Posers are the another type of insecure people. Silly and superficial, these folks are striking poses and trying to elicit compliments by insincere self-criticisms. Their real goal is to look better than you. They are after constant reassurance, but it's just never enough. There is nothing to gain by being around the poser, but nearly everything to lose.
Relationship light-bulb moments with Bob Grant's e-book »
Yes-Men or Yes-Women
Love hungry they are convinced they have to be with somebody, anybody. They fall in love from the first sight. They are desperate to get you to commit to them, and it doesn't matter at what cost. They don't have their own opinion, they like what you like, they hate what you hate. Their measure of success is the ability to have a partner. They don't respect themselves and often suffer from very thing they fear the most - loneliness.
